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Life Lessons

June 1, 2023

Life Lessons

Padmini Arhant

1. Never feed mouths that are habitual of biting the hands that feed or fed them before.

2. Never host parasites that are pathological irreversible necrotic organisms by nature.

3. Don’t waste time and energy that desperately seek attention through provocation, harassment and narcissism.

4. The howling wolves and scavenging jackals are unadaptable to environment contradictory to their origin and habitat.

5. Those living others’ life through invasion and colonization evolved into obsession are self-declared corpse with nothing to live for except intrude in others’ personal life.

6. The best attitude to nastiness, bitterness and unprovoked hostility is to live own life to the fullest and happiest like never before making the most of the rain and sunshine.

7. Never mind the fools in paradise for they alone have to deal with rude awakening.

8. Identity theft is equal and similar to one plus one never equal to one.

9. Greed and envy consume the source leaving emptiness as the net value.

10. Those with nothing to offer demand a lot more and everything from others.

11. Trust is easily and readily violated. Mistrust the repeat untrustworthy at all costs is the trusting testimony.

12. Heed life lessons and lay mistakes to rest once and for all.

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Narcissism – Definition and Victimization

February 16, 2023

Narcissism – Definition

 

and

 

Victimization

 

Padmini Arhant

The article is dedicated to victims of narcissism. The victims or the target silently suffer narcissism among family, work, social domain and world at large.

Narcissism not subject to legal and social consequences is rampant in society ruining lives and causing immense mental, emotional, psychological and physical strain on many lives deprived of normal peaceful life.

Narcissism – Psychology definition

Selfishness involving a sense of entitlement, lack of empathy and a need for admiration as characterizing a personality type.

Common Narcissist Characteristics
  • Inflated Ego.
  • Lack of Empathy.
  • Need for Attention.
  • Repressed Insecurities.
  • Few Boundaries.

The 4 types of narcissism.

As a personality trait, narcissism can be overt, covert, antagonistic, communal or malignant.

With the above outlined definition, characteristics and types of narcissism prevalent in society, the abusive commonality in narcissism is often found extremely destructive for victims enduring narcissistic culture in life.

In social terms of life experience.

Narcissism – a personality disorder with obsession to control, mind and dominate the target’s life.

Narcissists other traits are manipulation, connivance, cowardice deploying nuanced attacks and insinuations belittling target rather than direct comments. Additionally they possess multipolar personality with fake disposition to the world and displaying true colors to their target. These are some of narcissists’ diverse disturbing behavioral pattern.

There is no doubt on narcissists seeking their target’s isolation to ambush and inflict serious injury which is often emotional and mental not barring physical impact as a result of the narcissists’ toxicity and irreconcilable dogma.

Setting psychology apart, narcissists denial on any behavioral issues on their part is classic syndrome. They consistently and persistently hold the victims at fault even to the extent of recommendation on clinical i.e. psychological counseling to psychiatric treatment for their victims.

Socially, narcissists suffer from anxiety, frustration and sense of rejection upon their victims distancing themselves for personal well being besides awareness averting problems by creating boundaries between them on what are acceptable and unacceptable in human relations regardless of the kind.

Narcissists being people largely with low and no self-esteem as well as deep insecurity, they prey on those who are genuinely nice, understanding,compassionate and of good nature.

The narcissists’ facade  laden with presumptuousness, egotistical megalomaniacal self-adulation instrumental in their prejudice, misogyny, condescendence and constant disparagement of their target is common among both male and female predators offloading their negativities on their target.

How to deal with narcissists and narcissism?

First of all, the victims of narcissism should never allow the narcissists or others to treat them disrespectfully and remind them constantly that respect is not a one way street with a dead end. The victims should reinforce the message to narcissists and whoever not treating them right that mutual respect is an obligation for mankind even in the worst situations of disagreements and dispute.

Second, the victims should never accept nor believe the character defamation of them usually the favorite assault by narcissists and those involving in any form of abuse.

The narcissists often intensify their narcissism by spreading vicious unsubstantiated rumors about the target to anyone and everyone whether related and connected or not. Such behavior from narcissists is to further alienate the target or victim to the point of hopelessness and helplessness with no choice except surrender to narcissists abuse as the victims’ fate.

Next, the victims should maintain high morale, inner confidence and strong belief in inner strength eliminating self-doubt the fodder for narcissists to exert influence on the target.

Narcissists are habitual nitpickers exaggerating and mocking the target / victims’ minor insignificant details and deliberately suppress the target / victims’ major achievements in life. The tactic is to demoralize and denigrate their target / victims.

Narcissists weakness is quest for power and prominence in the least wanting to be the center of attraction – all of which prompts them to target the contrary personality treating them inferior to selves aiding false consolation.

Importantly, the absence of inner harmony and contentment within they witness in their victim or target triggers hostility towards the target.

Narcissists are impulsive provocateurs and trouble makers by default. They test their target’s reaction to provocation verbatim or indirect insult and insolence.

In this instance, there are two options for the target.

1. The target completely ignore the narcissists which is usually unwelcome by them as dismissal of narcissists leave the latter with bruised ego. Again the target slighting the narcissists rather than apologizing or expressing regret would provide clear signal to the abuser on their narcissism having no effects making them irrelevant.

2. The other option is for the target / victim to serve narcissists the opposite response. The narcissists provoke the target with the expectation of outbursts and agitation from the victim. The victim or the target should take a deep breath retaining calm and composure reply to narcissists in sarcasm to sign up for healthy mental and physical activity to make their life meaningful.

Any time narcissists use opportunity to cause unnecessary pain and emotional exploitation, the victims should remain steadfast and train themselves to stand up to narcissistic woes and strictly prohibit any mental, psychological and physical harm.

The narcissists as deniers of any wrongdoing never acknowledge their abusive conduct. They are parasites and crave for hosts to prolong their parasitic existence.

The narcissists never practice what they preach their victims such as tolerance despite the terminology and attribute being oxymoron to them.

The solution for victims or target in these conditions.

Many victims of narcissism confirm them restoring or return to normal life subsequent to disassociation and disconnect with narcissists shunning abusive environment. Furthermore, the victims investment in productive, positive and peaceful endeavors away from narcissists’ interference would promote self-fortitude and happiness.

Some victims of narcissism experiencing depression and restlessness unable to remove themselves permanently would be better off availing moments to go on vacation, travel or visit places and people they desire to see or spend time with stimulating peace and joy.

With clinical diagnosis of narcissism as incurable, while religious advice emphasize on empathy, love, kindness…towards narcissists, the prognosis exacerbate victims’ suffering.

The victims or target are lectured to grin and bear the abuse with smiles and large heartedness by those in society who would instantly decline own mistreatment let alone sacrifice their life for abusers’ sadistic pleasure.

The narcissists and abusers of individual rights are the ones to be checked and advised to behave themselves condemning their actions – reprehensible.

The narcissists and abusers’ failure to treat their victims or target with respect and dignity is clarification on them devoid of basic human values.

Invariably, the narcissists leave the world burdened with guilt and sins having wasted life in hurting and harming goodness in their victims / target  much to self-destruction. The eternal karmic debts binding them forever receiving what they served their victims / target in the present life is the only certainty following their demise.

The victims or target need not tolerate narcissism and any abuse at anytime in life. The life with individual liberty, peace, success and satisfaction is inalienable birth right barring discrimination and selective discretion.

Padmini Arhant

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Gossip the tell tale signs

January 29, 2023

Gossip the

Tell Tale Signs

Padmini Arhant

Gossip – whisper and weave tales to suit own corrupt mindset.

Who indulge in gossip?

The ones who have no life of their own and become obsessed with another in the nuanced stupidity and insanity. Notwithstanding the target having no relation, connection and / or interests with gossipers and their concoction of characters whatsoever.

What prompts gossip?

The idle mind being the devil’s workshop preoccupy in rumor, propaganda and sleaziness leading to self-humiliation. 

How to deal with gossip?

Like with any negative human trait, ignoring gossip mongers to submerge in their dirty swamp would indicate their wasteful life. Furthermore, gossip mongers feed on reaction to ignite more sparks without realizing the flame ultimately engulf their evil act in the fire they started.

Why is gossip the preferred choice for sticky beaks?

They have no life. They seek undeserving attention. They are sadists deriving pleasure minding other’s life to escape from own miserable boredom with nothing to live for and their existence a proven burden without meaningful positive purpose. They are self-declared and exposed excrement contaminating environment.

Those who gossip are controlling and the devils are always agitated upon being rejected for what and who they are. Not surprisingly they accuse the target as controlling for declining to bow to their egotistical narcissism, incessant misogyny, prejudice and hostility.

Gossip and gossipers meet their fate accordingly with a life depleted of self-respect and human value. 

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Identify the Real Enemy

May 17, 2022

Identify the Real Enemy 

Padmini Arhant

Who is the real enemy denying true liberty, freedom of expression, legitimate functional corrupt-free democracy with absolute transparency and accountability holding none above law especially the powerful, affluent and influential pulling strings from behind and upfront without exception?

All that one has to do in the contemporary era is to look around worldwide. The concept and functionality of democracy is subverted in different format with congruence in one and only one base i.e. dominance, control, supremacy and narcissism.

No nation in the world is democratic espousing values and principles applicable to all barring discrimination, alienation and disenfranchisement in some form or another.

The forces in control as Global Shadow power favor all of the following leading to the fact they are against republic governed democracy anywhere. Accordingly, they have in the past century and in the present time favor governments and regimes servile to their policy and agenda. Importantly, they choose to ignore and even dismiss paradoxical position for exclusive economic interests. Ukraine war fits the profile.

Who are all the governments and rulers they allow to remain in power?

The so-called democracy in disguise sworn allegiance to oligarchy, secret society and anti-sovereignty.

They continue to promote monarchy, kingdoms and fiefdoms despite anti-humanity legacy and abhorrent record in human rights and environment violations all to solely benefit them.

The Global Shadow power uninhibited in providing asylum and safe haven to dictatorial rulers either self-exiled or overthrown by people of the nation they belong to enabling them to return to the nation to oppress the population. There are several examples in this regard from world over. However, the one that could be easily related to is Iran.

Iran in the middle east is currently ruled by theocratic government. The theocratic governance came into existence from Iranian revolution overthrowing their earlier monarchy Shah Pahlavi who was known to the Iranian people then as the global shadow power’s puppet.

Prior to installation of monarchy in Iran, the first and last democratically elected government headed by the one and only ever former Prime Minister of Iran – Dr. Mohammad Mosaddegh.

The democratic leadership in Iran was removed from power by western coup predominantly for nationalizing Iran’s oil reserves towards Iranian citizens economic growth and development.

The documented evidence reveal oil giants British Petroleum and Dutch Shell company from western Europe considered then Iran PM’s energy policy directly against their economic gains and the democratic government of Iran was toppled with PM Mossadegh unnatural demise leaving the people of Iran bereft of democracy until today.

Subsequent to overthrow of Iranian democratic government, the global shadow power placed the monarchy represented by Shah Mohammad Reza Pahlavi.

Soon after, Ruhollah Khomeini  as the former religious Supreme Leader exiled in Paris, France at that time returned to rally the Iranian revolution. Since then Iran is ruled by orthodox theocracy emphasizing religion oriented governance experienced as repressive governing by the freedom loving majority in the Islamic Republic of Iran.

Iran’s political transformation from democracy to monarchy and theocracy, the latter two anti-democratic ruling were launched and facilitated by the global shadow power.

Likewise, throughout middle east the idea of democracy is forbidden with authoritarian regimes ruling the state as Kingdom and Feifdom viz  Saudi Arabia, United Arab Emirates, Bahrain, Qatar, Jordan and Oman…to name a few in the region with all of whom the western ties are maintained exchanging economic, diplomatic and political relations considering the campaign donations and financing flowing from these sources during so-called western democratic elections.

Similar engagement in other parts of the world in Africa, Latin America, Asia and remote corners of the globe – the anti-citizens and anti-democratic leaderships granted the mantle of power ceding national resources and human capital as cheap labor force to the Global Shadow Power.

Recently, there has been no problem for the western power to subjugate Afghan population under Taliban rule. The treaty signed between Taliban and western powers viz. United States and NATO is proclaimed by Taliban as the Islamic Emirate of Afghanistan accord.

Taliban are self-certified Islamic fundamentalist presently in power in Afghanistan.

In the neighboring India, the unapologetic Hindu fundamentalist in the so-called world’s largest democracy is close western ally with no concern over crackdown on religious freedom, civil rights and freedom of press questioning political authority on any issue.

The discussion beginning with flagrant economic failures to soaring unemployment resulting in educated and skilled youth suicide and critically national security crises with China’s occupation of the Himalayan region and incursion in north eastern states of the country are persona non grata (unwelcome).

Interestingly, the Hindu fundamentalist stalwarts in central and state government in India influence judiciary in semblance with western pattern such as in the United States.

For instance an Islamic female student’s choice to wear burqa in adherence to her family conservative values is chased, harassed and ridiculed on main street by Hindu fundamentalist mob in world view.

The petition in the fundamentalist ruled Karnataka state high court on the open intimidation is struck down with the ruling that traditional attire and old age customs are to be abandoned adopting contemporary lifestyle when attending public educational institution viz. college and higher school of studies in the state.

The irony is while the fundamentalist rulers in the state and national government void other religions’ practice as archaic and insist people of other faith to adapt to modern living, the same principle is woefully discarded by them.

In declining to abolish the admittedly more than 4000 -year-old highly discriminatory prejudiced caste system deceitfully citing Vedic scriptures as alibi for the centuries old crime against different communities in society abused as untouchables aka the so-called Dalits, backward castes, scheduled castes, scheduled tribe…and so on are upheld as Hindu zealots’ fundamental right fraudulently claiming cultural heritage.

Apparently, the Hindu fundamentalist see no parallel in their argument when comparing customary projections between religions albeit the origin of Hindu religion preceding Islam or other Abrahamic faiths besides various other religious spectrum in India.

The global shadow power bias on communism and socialism is another factor.

Up until now and more so at the moment the defiant communist power in Beijing, China enjoys most favored nation status in economic trade, permanent membership with veto power in the United Nations Security Council, enormous holdings on EU and United States treasury assets, overwhelming clout on international organizations like World Health Organization (WHO) and the list is endless.

There is considerable hue and cry over other fringe communist nations sanctioned for decades like Cuba or socialist Venezuela quoting human rights situation though the same or worse conditions in Hong Kong, Tibet and mainland China are regarded inconvenient and overshadowed by western economic and financial dependency on China.

Notwithstanding Beijing’s stance against democratic Taiwan also ignored in the context.

In conclusion, the global shadow power preference to anti-democratic and anti-republic systems are clear ranging from monarchy, political dynasty to theocracy, religious fundamentalists from different faiths, radicals extending to terrorism, ruthless oppressors ruling different parts of the world over several decades in the Middle East, Africa, Latin America and Asia until now.

The primary goal and staunch conviction is to bereave ordinary citizens across the globe of active vibrant utilitarian democracy, individual rights, equal access to peace, progress and prosperity.

The antiquated colonial doctrine divide and rein control is retained until today sowing seeds of poison among humans to fight against each other. The smoke and mirror serves in the Global Shadow power to oppress and suppress life rejecting marching orders from them.

The Global Shadow power install, support and boost anti-republic governance i.e. against the citizens at large nationwide depriving ordinary folks from all walks of life, race, religion and background the life with dignity, freedom of choice and fair opportunity.

Above all, corruption plays a very important role in regime representation. The more corrupt the governance, the easier and overt assertion of authority from the Global Shadow power.

Identifying the real enemy controlling the destiny of billions of population through proxy and puppet regimes stated as governments is key to the present and future generation individual and collective emancipation.

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