Defining Normality

August 23, 2023

Defining Normality

Padmini Arhant

Understanding and accepting that normality is not one size fits all especially when touting diversity. It is  fundamental in the so-called woke culture woefully gone wrong in every aspect.

What seems not normal to the cynical eye is perfectly normal in relation to health and lifestyle routines for those whom the advocates on normalcy incessantly pursue epitomizing own abnormality in such obsession.

Accordingly, the things, activities and issues that are not normal aka abnormal even weird in the otherwise reasonable manner are the following.

1.The fixation with pejorative views about someone they do not want to know yet pretend to know all about them maintaining insolence and insults towards them as their entitlement.

Treating others the way one want to be treated is the normal edifice not the exact contradiction declared and imposed as normal against the former. 

2. Claiming their target is on their radar while not knowing them being on the radar of the all-knowing all-seeing phenomenon, the force they have to reckon with in the event of them exceeding the limits of normality reaching obnoxious insanity relevantly in the present moment.

3. Spying on the normal peaceful productive lifestyle of the target and writing articles or publicizing the benefits without attributing credit where credit is due, the action translating into piracy in malevolent denial of the real identity and acknowledgment of the source.

In the normal setting, there would be no snooping, eavesdropping and be a dirty fly on the wall, the practice obtusely standardized as prerogative and paradoxically normal.

Furthermore, the source from where healthy beneficial life activities are deceptively and secretly stolen and spread under pseudonyms in the purported effort to shun the origin to anonymity is anything but normal. Instead it reeks of intentional malice and contempt towards goodness and tolerance.

Anonymity agenda against the target is abstract like the perception of the solar and lunar eclipse as disappearance of the celestial bodies from the galaxy.

In this instance, applying the definition of normal, the proper way would be to engage in normal civil discussion with the person unlike the behind the scenes lurking over the shoulder to lift anything from and about them for monetary gains and malignant purpose.

The positive attributes of the person would be duly identified and thanked not hidden and exploited for personal and vested interests.

Such sneaky compulsive disorder is by no means a normal behavior rather highlight grand larceny and criminal offense in violation of individual rights, space and life.

Not to mention the lewd crude conduct as peeping Tom or Tammy seeping into perversion only expose the indulgers’ unsavory personality.

When the line is drawn explicitly with not interested and emphatic NO reply for violators not to encroach and offenders’ slighting the reminder would eventually deal with the consequence of their action.

Unfortunately, those who have no respect for other’s rights prompting extreme transgressions and objectionable interventions by stalking, trolling and tagging – the bullying of those whom they can’t apparently live without with their own life flushed in the drain leave them utterly desperate and despondent in the self-inflicted quandary.

The burning desire to destroy is the spark that ignites self-destruction.

The normal course in these situations would be – don’t let the worst in you get the most out of you with nothing to live for except self-consuming negativity and unprovoked hostility.

Meanwhile, your life flickers away with you and alike squandered the opportunity for redemption.

Padmini Arhant 

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