Narcissism – Definition and Victimization
March 22, 2025
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Narcissism – Definition
and Victimization
Padmini Arhant
The article is dedicated to victims of narcissism. The victims or the target silently suffer narcissism among family, work, social domain and world at large.
Narcissism not subject to legal and social consequences is rampant in society ruining lives and causing immense mental, emotional, psychological and physical strain on many lives deprived of normal peaceful life.
Narcissism – Psychology definition
Selfishness involving a sense of entitlement, lack of empathy and a need for admiration as characterizing a personality type.
- Inflated Ego.
- Lack of Empathy.
- Need for Attention.
- Repressed Insecurities.
- Few Boundaries.
The 4 types of narcissism?
Setting psychology apart, narcissists denial on any behavioral issues on their part is classic syndrome. They consistently and persistently hold the victims at fault even to the extent of recommendation on clinical i.e. psychological counseling to psychiatric treatment for their victims.
Love and Hate – What is Powerful?
March 22, 2025
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Love and Hate – What is Powerful?
Padmini Arhant
Love and Hate are powerful in their respective contrasting effects.
Love has positive constructive impact bringing peace, happiness and harmony within and all around.
Hate is self-destructive and harmful leading to conflict, confusion and apathy affecting own health and mental peace.
Politics anywhere whether in family, at work, sports or the political field is unfortunately premised on hate, divisiveness, envy, insecurity – highlighting color, creed, gender, economic social background and various denominations instead of respect, love, kindness and empathy…that are core qualities in human nature.
Similar to violence begets violence, hate engender hatred overwhelming the heart and mind from being kind. At the least civil and respectful to one another.
Hatred upon left unchecked or not contained is like the automobile in motion at the maximum speed with brake failure. Needless to say the end-result of such predicament is anything but safe and successful.
Love, compassion and mutual understanding barring prejudice and judgmental behavior are far more beneficial to physical, mental and emotional well being.
The choice is not hard between hate and love.
Padmini Arhant
Los Angeles, Los Angeles, California – National Security Crisis
March 5, 2025
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Los Angeles, California
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National Security Crisis
Padmini Arhant
Update March 7, 2025.
Notorious for the record in protecting, fomenting and rewarding crime and criminals is none other than Kamala Emhoff Harris, the former San Francisco DG, California AG, CA Senator and former VP – all unelected usurped positions and,
Last but not the least, undemocratically fronted without democrat primary – the 2024 puppet Presidential candidate launched in a coup against own incumbent and yet experienced a colossal defeat in the 2024 Presidential election.
The defeat earnestly and appropriately delivered by the electorate to the actual contenders – Barack Obama and Michelle Obama – the avid campaigners with exclusive personal and vested interests to prolong abuse and exploitation of identity theft for positive image in contradiction to their well established corruption and criminality as the individual originality.
The same aptly applies to their wannabe opportunist proxy puppet 2024 Presidential candidate’s willful collusion in deception en masse.
The Californians who genuinely care about the State’s dismal status quo have long been drowned in deep BLUE sea leaving the cities like San Francisco, Los Angeles among other commercial centers in shambles with crime, drugs, violence, homelessness and burglaries dominant in terrorizing citizens and businesses reflective of those in position of power and authority in the State of California.
The status quo more relevant to the former proxy administration of which the ex-VP Kamala Harris was intricately involved and responsible regardless of the unscrupulous detachment adding insult to the otherwise smart savvy Californians’ intelligence.
The public office is funded by the public as taxpayers not run by any private enterprise for the political party to exert counterproductive and destructive will via candidacies chosen by failed, flawed, anti-public and anti-republic interests aimed at self-enrichment and empowerment while bankrupting the same taxpayers via organized crime and politics’ aided theft and grand larceny.
Time to bid permanent farewell to corrupt criminal politics and entities as the chief beneficiaries for lifetime.
Padmini Arhant
Update March 6, 2025.
Chastise Crime Victims and Coddle Criminals is the practice.
The victims are chastised and criminals are coddled in soft on crime politics.
The victim is chastised while criminals in the smash, crash, dash and bash homes, businesses, shops and showrooms…roam free in the catch and release cat and mouse game.
The burglarized victims are chided on their safekeeping habits of any valuables and lifestyle in endless home and business break-ins and burglaries with the cops utterly overrun by politics’ aided criminals in the soft on crime policy for votes.
The empathy towards criminality was outpouring and demonstrated in the massive fraud to the tune of $20 billion – $30 billion unaccounted Californian taxpayer money, of which $140 million handed to serious criminals in prison and the death row inmates convicted as serial killers and murderers.
Since January 2015, the former California State Controller Bettty T. Yee and her audit team have identified more than $3.3 billion in misuse, waste, and fraud involving public funds.”
The biggest accounting fraud and scandal in the California state’s history and one that has yet to be fully addressed.
During pandemic lockdowns that forced millions out of work, California’s Employment Development Department, or EDD, sent out an estimated $20 billion and $30 billion in fraudulent unemployment checks.
While, more than a million deserving out-of-work business owners and workers were denied funds the state government had promised.
The system was so dysfunctional that more than $140 million in checks went to at least 20,000 prisoners, including well-known convicted murderers on death row.”
Apparently, the victims targeted and deprived of their life savings, valuables, damage to property and stolen assets in the brazen loot and scoot criminal marathon are at fault for having them at home in places they feel are safe.
The way criminals are well equipped and prepared in their operations with little or no legal consequences due to political strategy in California to spare them in the catch and release policy,
No matter whatever foolproof arrangements are made by the victims and potential targets in the residential and business districts, the criminals have all the privileges and benefits even as the convicted members in prisons compared to the ordinary taxpayers.
The status quo enable the criminal community to maintain their hits that has exponentially risen in the last four years and peaked in 2023 until now in California.
It appears, the victims of burglaries and those concerned about the incidents were to store their items in the crate beneath earth’s crust, that could also be excavated by criminals with able assistance from politics’ granted criminal rights in California.
All said and done, the criminals seem to be in win-win situation.
They keep the loot and don’t do time.
Upon being caught with citizens’ efforts, they only serve minimal sentence and are back on the streets leaving the victims ever vulnerable.
The crime victims are blamed for even owning any valuables not barring their clothes and shoes that are primary looted items amongst the entire household goods and whatever the burglars’ hands could take on their exit from home and business.
These incidents and lack of severe legal ramifications make crime attractive and lucrative for those pledged to never reform in their life.
Welcome to the world of paradox.
Padmini Arhant
Crime and Politics
The residents and burglarized victims affected in the systemic crime manifestation share the facts about politics.
“Crime is essentially encouraged by elected officials. So, WHY do we continue paying taxes??? When is enough enough?”
“Criminal politics foster criminality. They are supposed to maintain law and order. They are the epitome of lawlessness.”
The United States Congress grilling the sanctuary city officials might be optics for the citizens, who are robbed of their entire life savings, hard earned assets and valuable possessions and for businesses their livelihoods and loss of jobs for their employees.
At the end of the day, the citizens expressing their approval or rejection of the elected officials via ballots and RECALL to STEP DOWN during extraordinary situations like the complete breakdown of law and order in a City and State is the only option.
No performance, no taxes.
The citizens are forced into salvaging themselves regardless due to the elected officials’ AWOL at the top in public service.
Meanwhile, the firing of LAFD chief Kirsten Crowley swiftly adopted where convenient and her plea for reinstatement denied.
However, the same is not necessarily applied to own failures despite the fact – the responsibility (BUCK) ultimately stops at the overall oversight i.e. the authority such as the Mayor, DA, AG and the Governor.
One has to be the example to lead others. The practice abysmally missing in politics.
Padmini Arhant
When a burglar admittedly part of the burglar gang, having committed many deplorable crimes also includes according to his claim corrupt politics, law enforcement and those holding grudges against rivals being the incognito partners in the crime violating people’s homes and lives with a callous statement such as this;
“Our intent is not to hurt anyone but just to dominate.”
To dominate. Dominate whom?
How can those surrendered to the devil, when their body, mind and Soul is under devil’s control could ever dominate anyone?
Interestingly, those masked and cloaked, otherwise in disguise armed with some form of lethal or unlawful weapons and tools often setting about at night out of fear being caught in daylight, for that matter in the same getup even in daylight, the behavior clearly declaring them absolute cowards dominate at anytime?
It is rather gullible to even imagine that violation of other’s rights, home, space, property, life savings, and personal possessions are some act of exerting dominance.
Such violation is profound weakness in the overwhelming decay from within. That is the sign of the Soul’s abject incarceration beyond salvation.
None can cherish the malignant involvement to cause pain and loss in physical, mental and material value to others. The reverse is the inevitable effect with malignancy exacerbating their existence.
Those who live to hurt others hurt themselves with nothing positive to live for except waste their life in self-mortification.
Imposing on others and intrusion in their life is symptomatic of own uninteresting and worthless life.
The one who values own life would have no desire to devalue the life of another.
Those who inflict any harm, injury and damage to innocent lives are servile to the Satan in their mind and external forces promoting such indulgence and eventually all succumb to their ill-fated darkness.
Los Angeles, California has been hit with criminal wildfire. The crime wave in brazen burglaries, grand theft, break-ins at home at nightfall carried until dawn break while smash and grab armed robbery in business showrooms and shops in broad daylight are the increasing trend.
The crime situation in LA is completely out of control with citizens at home and lives terrorized with no end in sight.
U.S. Citizens in Los Angeles, California and nationwide – U.S. taxpayers tax dollars investment in their safety and security deserve priority from the State and Federal authority over the security guarantee of any foreign state and region across the border or overseas.
The criminals representing violent gangs and organized crime running the loot scoot and sell goods online or flying home are also identified in downing the street lights by cutting the power lines with Los Angeles key locations and downtown business districts without street lights for months despite taxpayers paying the City of Los Angeles to light the streets for citizens’ safety.
Accordingly, the thieves are well prepared in their targeted massive burglary and robbery peaked in 2023 to date.
The crime manifestation in the U.S. is not restricted to crossing the border on land.
The threat remains even more challenging with such arrivals by air as it is experienced in Los Angeles with the situation necessitating background check on those visiting, viz. Los Angeles, California for a specific purpose and that is to burglarize homes and businesses and return home with looted items.
The citizens in LA legitimately demand tougher immigration rules when granting travel visas to individuals from regions dispatched by violent gangs in South America as reported based on rising criminal incidents sweeping across Los Angeles.
Important to keep own house in order prior to any security assurance to foreign nations and continent expending American taxpayer money.
The legitimate doubt arising in the minds of those in need of rescue from any danger during the law and order breakdown in Los Angeles is;
Are those elected to power and directly responsible to protect them are even reliable and capable considering their performance or the lack thereof is explicit in status quo?
Padmini Arhant
Ukraine – Russia Peace Plan
March 3, 2025
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Ukraine – Russia Peace Plan
Padmini Arhant
The peace talks and negotiations to bring any conflict to an end would be credible upon participation of nations at war without any reservations and prejudice against any of the warring factions.
Any exclusion of the nation viz. Ukraine having been the victim with tremendous loss of lives and destruction in the three-year-old warfare that should have never begun in the first place is the bone of contention.
The previous democrat administration obviously not run by the former President Joe Biden, in accordance with predecessor Barack Obama and surrogates assessment.
Their public description of the Biden Presidency being weak and frail lacking in energy to stand still for barely 30 minutes exacerbated by cognitive decline and so on…since the start of the Presidential term in 2021 and the deterioration thereafter was cited as justification in the abrupt removal i.e. internal democrat coup against Biden Presidency in July 2024.
The same would apply to the present administration including the Vice President JD Vance, having criticized the former opponent Joe Biden Presidency as physically and mentally incapacitated from the start quoting then President Biden’s inability to function and handle the daunting tasks and challenges of the office of Presidency.
All these critics of Joe Biden Presidency from within the democrat party i.e. the Obamas and contingency in politics and media, alongside the current Republican White House having shared their comments alike throughout 2021 – 2024 and expressively on the campaign trail,
The 180 degrees turnaround from the former democrat and present Republican executive branch members referencing the previous Joe Biden Presidency, (though meant only for optics) as the decision maker executing critical actions proven counterproductive such as in the Ukraine – Russia war is self-contradictory to the critics.
Besides, the questionable position inarguably raise credibility factor on their flip flop about Biden Presidency.
Make up your mind. Barack Obama hand picked Vice President Joe Biden in the two term disastrous Barack Obama Presidency 2009 – 2016, subsequently installed in heavily contested controversial 2020 Presidential election to serve as the proxy for Barack Obama in 2021 – 2024 was one of the following.
Joe Biden Presidency in 2021 – 2024 was visibly and demonstrably fragile, lacking in physical and mental stamina to conduct the duties and responsibilities as the President, which in fact, is true of the actual Joe Biden.
Alternatively,
Joe Biden Presidency was resolute and sharp in decision-making with undeterred control in running affairs from the White House without the need for Barack Obama with Hollywood aid to sideline the sitting President suggesting physical and mental disabilities to ouster the President in the re-election bid.
It cannot be both for that would only make the proponents of such predicament experts in flawed fabrication and mendacious politics.
It further encapsulates the well-known status on earlier administration unequivocally run by the Obamas and proxies who exposed themselves with the overt coup against own party incumbency in July 2024.
Here is the paradox for the 2014 Barack Obama Presidency and then State Department, though the Secretary of State John Kerry was the appointee in the second term 2012 – 2016.
It was still under the earlier Secretary of State Hillary Clinton run through foreign government interventionists like the democrat Victoria Nuland in the State Department, the wife of Robert Keagan, the Republican, who in return was known for democracy destabilization wherever possible under Bush-Cheney administration.
Regardless, none were ever subject to any scrutiny nor any investigation for their extensive involvements offshore wreaking havoc and political instability in various foreign destinations.
The democrat party and bipartisan Congress considered the inquiry and probe on them not necessary unlike the days and months expending taxpayer money wasted in hearings on gender orientation and individual matrimony.
In contrast, the Barack Obama Presidency and democrat obsession with indictments, impeachment proceedings and litigations against the Trump Presidency, Trump 2016 Presidential campaign and Trump’s first term administration members until now are routine at taxpayers’ expense.
In 2021 – 2024, the Barack Obama run Biden administration elevated Victoria Nuland to even more prominent critical role to expand operations offshore for further chaos and mayhem than the ones in 2009 – 2016.
Victoria Nuland, among other key participants was responsible for Ukraine’s political unrest in Maidan Square, Kiev in 2014.
The former Secretary of State Hillary Clinton and the ex-President Barack Obama projecting their anchored anti-Putin sentiments to date were not in Moscow during 2009 – 2016 orchestrating political turmoil or overthrowing Russian President Putin’s government amid slander and sensational opinions from both of them against Russia and Russian President Putin in particular.
They were conducting these anti-democratic activities with EU against the supposedly ally Ukraine on Ukrainian soil.
To the contrary, on Barack Obama and Hillary Clinton oversight and management of foreign affairs, the Hillary Clinton 2016 Presidential campaign was directly involved in the political scandal – the Russian Dossier saga that was found to be associated to eliminate then Republican Presidential contender Donald Trump in 2016.
Hillary Clinton Presidential campaign was using Russian alliance to dislodge Donald Trump’s 2016 Presidential campaign revealed in the exposé.
Consequentially, the so-called Russian collusion stigma linked to then Presidential candidate Donald Trump proved a hoax shedding light on the actual entity in that regard – Hillary Clinton and her Presidential campaign with Barack Obama promoting the same.
Yet another Senior member contacts and dealings with Russian political establishment was the Barack Obama’s Vic President Joe Biden.
The democrat Vice President Joe Biden corruption scandals among several of them, were the one with then Moscow’s Mayor and wife – the Russian couple backend financial dealings with then VP Joe Biden under Barack Obama Presidency that came to light in 2020 Presidential election and swiftly swept under the rug with media collusion.
In view of all these accounts under Barack Obama Presidency in 2009 – 2016, the top political members starting with the Presidency of Barack Obama, the Secretary of State Hillary Clinton and Vice President Joe Biden other than Victoria Nuland and assortment individuals, were all connected to Russia and Russian political circle for exclusive personal interests while carrying on anti-Russian rancor in public.
Relevantly, the Barack Obama Presidency and Hillary Clinton in the administration targeted the so-called ally Ukraine in the violent overthrow of the democratically elected Ukrainian President Viktor Yanukovych and entire cabinet literally at gun point in world view on camera in 2014.
Not Russia at any point in time even though the democrat anti-Russian stance echoed on media and political sparring for spectacle.
Similarly, the Barack Obama Presidency was fixated on coup against the Syrian President Bashar Al Assad in the failed so-called Arab Spring in 2011 – 2016.
Nonetheless, upon assuming official power via proxy Biden administration in 2021 – 2024, Barack Obama and Israel’s Benjamin Netanyahu directed political upheaval using al Qaeda terror outfit terminated Syrian President Bashar Al Assad rule with terror organization in control of Syria.
The move against Syrian population handing governance to al Qaeda in Syria in December 2024 was a parting gift to the incoming Donald Trump administration, upon Barack Obama losing 2024 Presidential election via puppet candidate Kamala Harris.
Politics might circumvent and maneuver on issues and global affairs that were directly under their ambit. Their actions confirm the facts on the ground that could neither be subverted nor denied.
The latest rerun by the Vice President Vance on Biden policy in Ukraine – Russia as belligerent with the simultaneous observation maintained throughout Joe Biden Presidency as physically and mentally debilitated from the beginning leading to the coup in 2024 is political spin to suit own narratives befitting the situation.
As for the Ukraine – Russia war, it is no secret that territorial annexations are prompted by hegemonic goals by any imperial power in the past and contemporary age.
Russia, previously as the head of the former Union of the Soviet Socialist Republic (USSR) harboring restoration of the status with Ukraine or any other former states in Eastern and Central Europe not barring Central Asia would be reverting to past century. The futile efforts notably realized in the incursions in the present century.
Such aspirations are neither practical nor viable especially in the aftermath of full-fledged warfare not only with Ukraine but also other neighbors viz. Georgia and similar states that were under former Soviet Union.
Russia maintaining pre-2014 economic and trade relations with Ukraine and disavow occupation of Ukraine territory would clarify Russian Federation commitment in honoring Ukraine’s sovereignty and territorial integrity that Russia has elucidated and voted for other nations like Syria in the UNSC resolutions.
Ukraine on the other hand, seeking peace and security with the permanent guarantee from Russia against invasions and occupation in the immediate or distant future is valid.
The NATO ally Turkey submitting to deploy peacekeeping troops in Ukraine along with Britain and France coming forward in this regard might be a deterrent plan.
However, Moscow evaluating the offer on Kremlin’s angle as NATO presence across the border is to be understood from the standpoint that the three-year-old warfare in 2021 – 2024 was technically fought between Russia and United States and NATO members provided military artillery, logistics support, intelligence and technological aid to Ukraine.
Anyhow and somehow, United States and NATO were effectively engaged in the weapons supply to Ukraine as openly admitted by the current administration during the recent contentious meeting at the White House. The same has been clarified by NATO as well.
Russia’s dilemma with NATO or NATO ally presence in Ukraine could be averted in abandoning territorial occupation of Ukraine.
Instead, Russia pivot to economic divestments facilitating rebuilding of war torn Ukraine towards mutual economic ties such as the one established with Ukraine pre-2014 would be conducive and economically beneficial.
Once Ukraine is able to renew peaceful co-existence barring skirmishes and any ethnic or demographic clashes like the ones in 2014 post United States and EU destabilization in Maidan square in Kiev, the necessity for Ukraine’s NATO membership would no longer be a priority.
At the end of the day, Russia and Ukraine have to mend ties as they are situated next to each other and can’t afford to prolong hostility and aggression regardless of domestic or foreign intervention and influence.
Russia and Ukraine have lot of commonalities that supersedes any differences even though the war inflicted damages and wounds would require own healing process.
The citizens on both sides have suffered enough and unfortunately their dissent on the warfare was muted.
Needless to say, it is the norm in politics unheeding public outcry on deaths and destruction during wars and economic downturns by retaining business as usual in political and economic deals regardless of the strategy resulting in failure.
Russian and Ukrainian leaderships having equal opportunity, respect and fairness in the peace negotiation is important for fruitful outcome.
The Ukraine and Russian population ever remain hopeful in ending the war with a firm commitment exemplified in action from the leaderships of both sovereign independent nations.
Wishing Peace, Stability and Security to Ukraine and Russia.
Padmini Arhant
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